How to Show Her You Love Her

By | December 13, 2017

You know you love her. The only problem is that she sometimes feels that you do not show it enough. You can show her you love her without spending a small fortune. The best ways to do this is with your actions. Small gestures (to quote another of my articles). These make the best impression. Keep reading to learn more about how to show her you love her.

Do you ever give her flowers for no reason? Do you ever buy her a simple card just to let her know that you have been thinking of her? Do you ever offer to cook dinner for her so she can relax? It does not matter if she does not go to a job every day. She still does things for you that sometimes you may take for granted. Believe it or not, she can have a very busy day, especially if you have children. I would rather go to a job and work 8 to 10 hours every day, than to be dealing with children all day long. Do not misunderstand me, I love our kids. But I know that she can have her hands full every minute of every day, without a break. So, when I get home, it is my turn.

That is the way I used to think, when I went to a job every day. I now work from home, so I get to share in the joy that is “our children” (Yippeee!). But I would not change a thing about it. I love it. I get to spend most of my time with the people I love the most. Now onto other things.

If you really want to know how to show her you love her, the answer is really simple. Give your time and attention to her. I know life can sometimes be hectic. I know there are not enough hours in the day to do all of the things you need to do. But, the most important thing in your life is your family. Without family, you have nothing. All the riches in the world do not compare to the feeling you get from being with those you love. Am I right? Of course I am. Do I sound a little conceited? Of course I do (it’s okay to laugh now). The point I am trying to make is, you have to share the responsibilities in the home. This will go a long way in showing her that you love and appreciate the things that she does for you.

Bring her flowers. Do you remember the old song, “You Don’t Bring Me Flowers”? I do not care who she is, women appreciate flowers (I asked my wife just to make sure). If you bring her flowers, that shows that you appreciate what she does for you. Do not wait for a special occasion. She will be expecting flowers at these times anyway. You want to bring her flowers when she “is not” expecting them. The look on her face will be priceless. And she will know that you love her.

Get her a card. A simple little card with a sweet message for her, letting her know how much she means to you, will make her day. And possibly your night. The greeting card business is a billion dollar a year industry. There is reason for that. It works. With one card, people wrap up their emotions and hand them out with ease. When you give her a card, it is more than just a card. You are showing her that you took the time to look through hundreds of cards to find just the right one for her. You are giving her a message that says how you feel. You are giving her your heart.

Cook dinner. It does not matter if you are a master chef or not. If you put forth the effort to cook dinner for her, and you show that you care enough to give her the night off, she will appreciate this more than I could ever find words to say. You will be her hero for the night. You will be her knight in shining pots and pans. And you will also be expected to do the clean up. But that is okay. She will know you love her, and that is what you want.

If you do these things for her, you will see that she appreciates you more and then you will finally learn how to show her you love her.

James Larson writes articles on love and relationships. If you would like more information on the subject of relationships and how to make them work, visit his website at: This website is solely dedicated to helping people build strong, healthy and lasting relationships.